A Real Man

From A Real Man album by Ailee
Written by GRAY, Swings
Composed by GRAY
Arranged by GRAY
August 22, 2014
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Korean:

모두가 너에게 요구하는 건 진짜 많아
공부하러 학교 가는데 귀찮은 화장
high heels, 성적관리, 또 뭔 TOEIC 점수
니 지성에 대해 관심을 가진 놈이 없고
부모님도 그래 '대충 시집가자 girl
아저씨긴 한데 직책 좋은 총각 만났어'
예쁘지 않으면 숙녀 취급받기 힘든 사회
찌질이들은 왜 여자들이 성형하녜
참 그냥 기가 차 머리 안에선 쥐가 나
절대 포기는 싫잖아 오늘까지 매일 피와 살을
다 깎아가며 너의 자존감을 건설했으니
여태껏 고생한 게 결국엔 시꺼먼 ending으로
끝나는 건 당연히 싫지, 그게 뭐냐고?
현실과 타협해서 준비 안 된 젊은 엄마로
꽃 같던 날들을 다 마감하는 것
내가 여자였어도 그런 계약은 안 할껄

일이 꼬이고 안 풀릴 때
울고 싶을 때는 울어도 돼
또 모든 게 미워 보일 땐
화내고 싶으면 넌 내도 돼
이해해 나는 널
그래 지금 얘기해봐 다 모든 걸
들어줄 테니까 oh
everything's gonna be alright
웃고 싶을 때는 웃어줘

아무리 나쁜 연애 경험을 했어도 너는 다시 또
사랑에 빠지고, 때로는 몇 번 더 다치고
아무리 똑똑하다고 스스로 생각해도
좋은 남자란 게 뭔지 절대 불가능한 해독
자신감 많고 능력 좋은 남잘 만났더니
그 매력을 가지고 딴 여자와 바람 폈지
순진한 남자 잡은 것 같아 맘이 편안한데
6개월 만났더니 화를 내도 전활 안 해
참 그냥 기가 차 머리 안에선 쥐가 나
이 갈아, 피와 살이 막 깎이는 느낌 같아
근데 한 가진 분명해 좋은 남자는 많아
단, 금도 마찬가지고 찾는 건 쉽지 않아
널 치유할 자격 없어, 그저 상처만 줬어
이제서야 이해한단 것 만이라도 알아둬
널 치유할 자격 없어, 책임은 있으면서
위로 안 되겠지만 이해한다는 걸 알아둬

일이 꼬이고 안 풀릴 때
울고 싶을 때는 울어도 돼
또 모든 게 미워 보일 땐
화내고 싶으면 넌 내도 돼
이해해 나는 널
그래 지금 얘기해봐 다 모든 걸
들어줄 테니까 oh
everything's gonna be alright
웃고 싶을 때는 웃어줘

내가 완벽해서 이 노랠 만든 건 아냐
대부분의 남자들? 나보다 낫다 하면 맞아
27년 걸렸어, 구리단 걸 알게 되기까지
나아지고 싶을 뿐 난 후회를 다시
느끼기 싫어 그래서 해주는 이 얘기
나도 날 채찍 해야만 정신을 차리지 매일
절대적인 답은 없어 이게 현실인데
대신 나아지려는 놈을 만나 cuz he's a real man

일이 꼬이고 안 풀릴 때
울고 싶을 때는 울어도 돼
또 모든 게 미워 보일 땐
화내고 싶으면 넌 내도 돼
이해해 나는 널
그래 지금 얘기해봐 다 모든 걸
들어줄 테니까 oh
everything's gonna be alright
웃고 싶을 때는 웃어줘

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Romanization:

moduga neoege yoguhaneun geon jinjja manha
gongbuhaleo haggyo ganeunde gwichanheun hwajang
high heels, seongjeoggwanli, tto mwon TOEIC jeomsu
ni jiseonge daehae gwansimeul gajin nomi eobsgo
bumonimdo geulae 'daechung sijibgaja girl
ajeossigin hande jigchaeg joheun chonggag mannasseo'
yeppeuji anheumyeon sugnyeo chwigeubbadgi himdeun sahoe
jjijilideuleun wae yeojadeuli seonghyeonghanye
cham geunyang giga cha meoli aneseon jwiga na
jeoldae pogineun silhjanha oneulkkaji maeil piwa saleul
da kkakkagamyeo neoui jajongameul geonseolhaesseuni
yeotaekkeos gosaenghan ge gyeolgugen sikkeomeon endingeulo
kkeutnaneun geon dangyeonhi silhji, geuge mwonyago?
hyeonsilgwa tahyeobhaeseo junbi an doen jeolmeun eommalo
kkoch gatdeon naldeuleul da magamhaneun geos
naega yeojayeosseodo geuleon gyeyageun an halkkeol

ili kkoigo an pullil ttae
ulgo sipeul ttaeneun uleodo dwae
tto modeun ge miwo boil ttaen
hwanaego sipeumyeon neon naedo dwae
ihaehae naneun neol
geulae jigeum yaegihaebwa da modeun geol
deuleojul tenikka oh
everything's gonna be alright
usgo sipeul ttaeneun useojwo

amuli nappeun yeonae gyeongheomeul haesseodo neoneun dasi tto
salange ppajigo, ttaeloneun myeoch beon deo dachigo
amuli ttogttoghadago seuseulo saenggaghaedo
joheun namjalan ge mwonji jeoldae bulganeunghan haedog
jasingam manhgo neunglyeog joheun namjal mannassdeoni
geu maelyeogeul gajigo ttan yeojawa balam pyeossji
sunjinhan namja jabeun geos gata mami pyeonanhande
6gaewol mannassdeoni hwaleul naedo jeonhwal an hae
cham geunyang giga cha meoli aneseon jwiga na
i gala, piwa sali mag kkakkineun neukkim gata
geunde han gajin bunmyeonghae joheun namjaneun manha
dan, geumdo machangajigo chajneun geon swibji anha
neol chiyuhal jagyeog eobseo, geujeo sangcheoman jwosseo
ijeseoya ihaehandan geos manilado aladwo
neol chiyuhal jagyeog eobseo, chaegimeun isseumyeonseo
wilo an doegessjiman ihaehandaneun geol aladwo

ili kkoigo an pullil ttae
ulgo sipeul ttaeneun uleodo dwae
tto modeun ge miwo boil ttaen
hwanaego sipeumyeon neon naedo dwae
ihaehae naneun neol
geulae jigeum yaegihaebwa da modeun geol
deuleojul tenikka oh
everything's gonna be alright
usgo sipeul ttaeneun useojwo

naega wanbyeoghaeseo i nolael mandeun geon anya
daebubunui namjadeul? naboda nasda hamyeon maja
27nyeon geollyeosseo, gulidan geol alge doegikkaji
naajigo sipeul ppun nan huhoeleul dasi
neukkigi silheo geulaeseo haejuneun i yaegi
nado nal chaejjig haeyaman jeongsineul chaliji maeil
jeoldaejeogin dabeun eobseo ige hyeonsilinde
daesin naajilyeoneun nomeul manna cuz he's a real man

ili kkoigo an pullil ttae
ulgo sipeul ttaeneun uleodo dwae
tto modeun ge miwo boil ttaen
hwanaego sipeumyeon neon naedo dwae
ihaehae naneun neol
geulae jigeum yaegihaebwa da modeun geol
deuleojul tenikka oh
everything's gonna be alright
usgo sipeul ttaeneun useojwo

Credit: HallyuMusic
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English:

There’s so much that everyone demands from you
Makeup that you’re too lazy to put on when you’re going to school to study
High heels, getting good grades and TOEIC scores
No one cares about your intelligence
Even your parents tell you to just get married, girl
He is a bit older but he’s a hard worker
It’s hard to be treated like a lady if you’re not pretty in this society
Losers keep asking why women get plastic surgery
It’s unbelievable, you’re getting a headache
You don’t want to give up because every single day
You cut away at your blood and skin to build your pride
Of course you wouldn’t want all the things you worked hard for go to a dark ending and what’s that?
It’s your youthful days coming to end as you become an unprepared young mother after compromising with reality
Even if I was a woman, I wouldn’t make this kind of contract

When things get hard and it doesn’t get better
When you want to cry, you can cry
When everything looks resentful
When you want to get angry, you can get angry
I understand you
Yes, tell me everything
I will listen
Everything’s gonna be alright
When you want to smile, smile

No matter how many bad relationships you had
You fall in love again and sometimes get even more hurt
No matter how smart you think you are
It’s impossible to know what a good man is
You met a man who was confident and successful
But with those charms, he cheated on you with another woman
You met an innocent man and felt comfortable
But after dating for six months, you realize he never calls even when you get angry
It’s unbelievable, you’re getting a headache
You grind your teeth and it feels like your blood and skin are cutting away
But there’s one thing that’s clear, there are many good men
But it’s just like gold, they’re just not easy to find
They don’t deserve to heal you, they only hurt you
Just know that I finally understand now
They don’t deserve to heal you although they are responsible
It probably won’t do much but just know that I understand

When things get hard and it doesn’t get better
When you want to cry, you can cry
When everything looks resentful
When you want to get angry, you can get angry
I understand you
Yes, tell me everything
I will listen
Everything’s gonna be alright
When you want to smile, smile

I didn’t make this song because I’m perfect
Men in general, when they say they’re better than me, they’re right
It took me 27 years to realize how much this sucks
I just want to become a better person
I don’t want to feel regret again so I’m telling you this
I snap out of it only when I punish myself every day
There are no absolute answers, this is reality
Just try to meet a guy who tries to be better cuz he’s a real man

When things get hard and it doesn’t get better
When you want to cry, you can cry
When everything looks resentful
When you want to get angry, you can get angry
I understand you
Yes, tell me everything
I will listen
Everything’s gonna be alright
When you want to smile, smile
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